Think you might be pregnant?

People respond to a pregnancy in all kinds of ways. Some are overjoyed, while others might feel overwhelmed, anxious, or surprised.  

No matter your reaction, it's completely normal to need some time to process, reflect, and seek out information or support before deciding what comes next.

You may want to visit your doctor (GP) or read the information below to help you make an informed decision. 

Your first step: finding out for sure 

Finding out whether you’re pregnant as soon as possible means you have more time to think about your options and get the support you need.  

Whatever you decide, there are people who care and want to help you through the next steps. 

Pregnancy Tests:  

  • You can take most pregnancy tests from the first day your period is late. 
  • The most accurate time to test is 3 weeks (21 days) after the last time you had unprotected sex. 
  • Testing too early might give you a wrong result. For example, it might read as negative (not pregnant) when you're actually positive (pregnant).
  • If your periods aren’t regular or you don’t know when your period is due, wait 3 weeks (21 days) after the last time you had unprotected sex. 

You can get pregnancy tests:  

If your pregnancy test is positive – what next? 

You have several options, and you don’t have to decide everything right away. 

It’s important to get antenatal care booked as soon as possible. See your GP or register at your local hospital. Your GP and local hospitals can give you info about maternity services in Bexley.  

The NHS website has lots of helpful information about pregnancy and looking after a baby. 

The Bexley Council website has info about fostering and adoption if this feels like the right choice for you.

Visit their website here https://www.bexley.gov.uk/services/health-and-social-care/social-care-for-children/adoption/adoption-bexley  

People may decide to end a pregnancy for many different reasons. Some may not want children, while others might not be in a financial position to raise one. In some cases, continuing the pregnancy could pose serious medical risks. Choosing to have an abortion is a personal decision and the right of each individual. 

If you’re not sure about continuing a pregnancy, talking it through can help. Your GP or a sexual health clinic can provide a safe space to discuss your options. 

If you know you want an abortion, you can refer yourself:

Abortion is a very safe medical procedure and the earlier you have an abortion, the more choices you’ll have about what type you have. Your GP or nurse should always give you information about any potential risks involved before you go ahead.

Who can have an abortion?

For an abortion to be legal, you must be less than 24 weeks pregnant, and two doctors must agree. 

If you’re under 16, you can have an abortion without your parents knowing if two doctors agree you understand the situation. However, they'll encourage you to talk to a trusted adult if possible. 

Where to find support in Bexley

Remember, you're not alone. There are people to support you, whatever you decide.